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Understanding Anger: A Biblical Perspective

Anger is often considered a sin, yet many of us hold onto it because it seems like one of the easiest emotions to process—or so we think. Anger doesn’t signal weakness; in fact, it can give us a fleeting sense of control. But in reality, anger is one of our greatest weaknesses. When we let it take over, it often leads to poor decisions and responses that can create problems we didn’t have before.

So, what does the Bible say about anger? Surprisingly, it doesn’t outright condemn it. Consider Ephesians 4:26-27:

“Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil.”

Here, the apostle Paul acknowledges anger as a natural emotion but warns against letting it lead to sin. Why isn’t anger condemned? Because there is such a thing as “righteous indignation,” or “righteous anger.”

For example:
• In John 2:13-18, Jesus displayed righteous anger when He drove out the moneychangers in the temple.
• In 2 Samuel 12, David’s anger was stirred by Nathan the prophet’s story of an injustice.

Righteous anger arises when we confront injustice, not out of personal grievances, but from a desire to correct wrongdoing. However, most of the anger we experience daily isn’t righteous. It often stems from personal offenses or unmet expectations, which can lead us to sin.

Evaluating Your Anger

When you feel angry, pause and ask yourself:
• Is this anger rooted in a personal grievance, making it ungodly?
• Or is it directed at a genuine injustice, such as human trafficking, murder, or other moral wrongs?

Once you’ve identified the source of your anger, you must control it—regardless of whether it’s righteous or not. The Bible is clear: “Be angry, but do not sin.”

A Practical Example

Imagine you and your spouse are discussing how to use extra money in your budget. You want a new TV because the old one doesn’t work as well, while your spouse wants new shoes. The conversation escalates, tempers flare, and soon you’re both yelling and saying hurtful, ungodly things.

What happened? Anger took control of your thoughts and responses, turning a small disagreement into a major conflict.

How could this have been avoided?
• Take a moment to evaluate your emotions. If you can’t calm down in the moment, step away from the conversation to regain control.
• Consider your spouse’s perspective. Compromise is often the best solution. Focusing on their needs shifts the focus away from yourself, making it harder to stay angry.

A Call to Self-Reflection

Take a moment to examine your own life:
• Do you struggle with anger?
• Is it harming your relationships or causing misery?

If so, reflect on the last time you were angry. Was it directed at someone or something? Did it stem from hurt feelings, unmet expectations, or a sense of injustice?

The Bible offers guidance for managing anger. In 2 Corinthians 10:5, we’re told to “take every thought captive to obey Christ.” When anger arises, filter it through Christ. Ask Him to help you take control of your thoughts before they dictate your actions.

Final Encouragement

Anger doesn’t have to control you. By taking your thoughts captive and filtering your emotions through Christ, you can respond in a way that honors God. Start practicing this today, and you’ll be amazed at the difference it makes in your relationships and your life.